We live in a world where perfection is often the ultimate goal, whether in our careers, education, or even in our children. There’s nothing wrong with striving for excellence, but along the way, we inevitably face chaos, confusion, and challenges. From a young age, we’re taught to follow rules, meet standards, and conform to society’s expectations.
While I have no objection to having rules or goals, what concerns me is that, in our pursuit of what’s considered “normal” or “perfect,” we often sacrifice our inner spark.
Each of us is born with this spark, you can see it clearly in a child’s eyes. It’s the light of curiosity, imagination, and unique dreams. But as we grow, that light begins to dim. Sometimes it’s the result of discouragement from family, friends, or even strangers. It’s not always intentional, often, those who dampen our spark have had theirs dimmed too, and believe that’s just the way things are.
Unfortunately, our society isn’t yet ready to fully embrace the individuality and inner fire each child carries. Instead of nurturing it, we often overlook it.
To me, that spark represents so many things: the drive to dream big, the urge to explore, the courage to express oneself, and the curiosity to question the world. These inner sparks have the power to make the world a better, more compassionate place. As a mother, I see that very spark in my child’s eyes , a reflection of who I once was, and who I still strive to be. It has become my mission to protect that spark, to nurture it, and to ensure it grows even brighter as he does. Raising a child with their spark intact is no easy task, but it’s one of the most important journeys I will ever take.
